“The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been made into the confused, the trivial, the psychotic, the plasticized sensation. For this reason, we have often turned away from the exploration and consideration of the erotic as a source of power and information, confusing it with its opposite, the pornographic. The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings. It is an internal sense of satisfaction to which, once we have experienced it, we know we can aspire.”― Audre Lorde, Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power
"Female Erotic Confidence: The Art of Being Soft and Powerful" is the dream child workshop of two pioneering sex educators Pamela Madsen and Monqiue Darling.
The erotic is the deepest life force energy there is. As women we are taught to suppress it instead of harnessing it's power. In this five hour all female playshop we explore what it is to have erotic confidence and how to harness it for our lives.
Perhaps you have never heard the term "Erotic Intelligence", Erotic Guides" or even "Uses of the Erotic". Most women live outside ourselves, and rely on external forces, input and directives to guide our lives rather than from our internal knowledge and needs. When we tune out our own internal erotic guides we limit our capacity for creativity, sexual expression, pleasure, and our own ability to be powerful in our careers. This workshop will introduce you to your own internal guide perhaps for the first time, or take you deeper of the power of the erotic within ourselves.
1. Guided meditation into listening to our own internal erotic guide.
2. Exploring our full female expression and how we hold those emotions in our bodies.
3. Examine why we keep ourselves small erotically and practice opening ourselves up to our greatness
4. Delve deeper in our sexual desire and learn to honor, access and express it.
5. Investigate how the voices of our internal guide shift with each life change from menstruation to menopause.
6. Confront our hunger in every form from sexuality, to food, to money.
7.Tell the stories of our bodies.
8. Learn to access and work with our Arousal and Orgasm as a holistic tool for healing and transformation in our lives.
In a circle of women we will begin to loosen the shackles that bind your heart and tongue as you find your divine reflection through each person you interact with. We will witness each other with clarity and unconditional love and you will emerge transformed.
October 12th, 2014 1:30 to 6:30pm
Location: A private studio in NYC (location will be given after registration)
Get your ticket! You can still come today. We have room for five more women!
* Please eat before you arrive.
* This is a guided event
* Please arrive at 1:30
* Doors will be locked at 2pm
WHAT TO BRING:
* Nesting area - cushions, blankets, and anything soft and fuzzy to make your own personal nest on the floor
* a blindfold
* a closed water bottle
About Your Facilitators:
Pamela Madsen, NYC, NY is an integrative life coach specializing in the issues of women with a concentration on sexuality and self image. Pamela is the Founder of The American Fertility Association and Back to The Body: Sensuous Retreats For Women. She is the author of "Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner" (Rodale Press) and sexuality blogger for sites such as Psychology Today, Care.2 and Better After 50. http://www.PamelaMadsen.org and http://www.backtothebody.org
Monique Darling, San Diego, CA, is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment which provides workshops and experiential play-shops in the art of Tantra and conscious loving. She has studied and taught with renowned Tantra teachers and extraordinary workshop facilitators since 1990 and is a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s and has been interviewed by magazines across the USA. Monique is dedicated to empowering others utilizing her vast repertoire of cutting-edge teachings. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties.